It seems to me that the type of guys girls say try too hard are guys who actually care a lot about being good to the person they love, and wouldn't cheat on them. what about that dont girls like? i have to admit that i've been accused of this myself but i would be impressed by a girl who did the same thing.
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99% of girls have been screwed over by a guy and so they find the guys who try too hard or are "nice guys" are ones that they don't want to hurt and they would prefer to get hurt themself then hurt the guy so they steer clear of them hoping that the nice guy who cares will find someone "not as broken" to love not realizing that the nice guy is willing to help piece you back together and make you whole again0