My boyfriend and I have been on and off for 6 months now and he keeps saying that he is gay. He doesn't want to break up with me because he does not want to loose me. what do I do? please respond asap like now
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If he honestly thinks that he is gay then there is nothing that you can do except to support his decision. You can't change his mind, you can't change what he knows deep down inside. What you CAN do is to break off the relationship, you have that right. You want a boyfriend and, if he is gay, he can't offer you that. He doesn't want to lose you and that's understandable. Perhaps you two can be friends in time, once you have come to terms with things. He would have to understand that you might be a bit hurt and he would have to give you some time to think.
Try to bear in mind that this could be a very emotional and confusing time for him so if you can find it within yourself to be supportive then do so, but make sure you consider your own feelings too.1