my boyfriend NEVER posts pictures of us together or me. we have been dating for almost 3 months. he has never introduced me to any of his friends either. (but i have not too). I want to post pictures of us together but i dont know how to ask him because it seems like he would not want me to. Once we were on a date and he saw his friend (a girl). he was so scared and kept trying to hide himself. i found out later that they once went on a date together. he has met my family several times but i have not met his before. once i used his phone to take a photo of us together and posted it on his social media. right after we parted ways, he deleted the photo. i talked to him about this and he said that he just likes to keep his life a secret and does not like to share too much information about himself. i dont know what to believe tho. his actions just makes me feel really insecure and unwanted. (especially because he's close to many girls). i wish he wld show me off to others and tell others that he's mine.
- Yes, definitely.Vote A
- No, he might have other reasons.Vote B
Most Helpful Guy
One question, why are you guys dating at 16, you're still kids, how about you just focus on school, learn those ABCs and less time on dating. You're too young to be going through all these heartache. Anyway, it clearly seems like he is not confident enough to go public with his relationship with you. It is up to you to decide If this is a dealbreaker for you, as it seems like you are the type of person who loves public displays of your relationships.5
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Most Helpful Girl
I know people like to keep their lives private online, I don't pose to many pictures of me and my boyfriend but their are a few. What made me raise an eyebrow is him trying to hide in public when he's with you when he saw this other girl. Now you been together for 3 months and he still hasn't introduced you to his friends or family is kinda a red flag. Its almost like he's trying to keep you a secret, he doesn't want someone to know about you or possible doesn't want other girls to know about you or the fact he's in a relationship. One picture online shouldn't be problem but him immediately deleting the picture makes me a bit suspicious. Like ask him, why haven't you invited me to your friends or family? Why did you hide when you saw your friend, why did you delete the picture? Are you embarrassed of me? Is there someone else you trying to keep me a secret from... cause that shit would annoy me in heartbeat.1