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Most Helpful Guy
"Cheating" means different things to different people. Some people think it only means having sex with another partner while you are married; some people think "cheating" is flirting with someone else while you are in a monogamous relationship.
My divorce took 4 years to become final; it is a long boring story I don't want to repeat. There was an attempt at reconciliation but we were separated continuously for the last 2 1/2 years. About a year before the divorce became final, I began having sex with a girlfriend. I did not consider that cheating because I had no standing promise of faithfulness to me wife.0
Most Helpful Girl
Technically yes and no. I was 18 during the time and my first boyfriend and I lost our virginity to each other. Well turns out he feel in love with me and we dated for a couple of months after that. I ended up meeting an old classmate at the grocery store we started talking and exchanged numbers. I always had a crush on him and I wanted to try being with him sexually. Well I went back and broke off the relationship with my boyfriend. I started dating this new guy and the sex was great but my ex still contacted me. So I started having sex with him too. My boyfriend was a bad boy type and I knew that but he was better looking than my ex. My bad boy type boyfriend I was sure cheated on me with other girls. In a way I feel he deserved it. Anyways I was young and regret ever hurting my first boyfriend. I haven't cheated ever since and won't ever do it again. I have learned that cheating comes from selfishness. You don't think about how other people feel. I have never told anyone I cheated but technically I feel that my ex was a bad boy anyways and he did it to me. Plus I feel he wouldn't have been hurt in hearing that I cheated since he was a jerk anyway.0