It seems like guys don't like me, they only wanna hookup and I'd say no. I don't get what I'm doing wrong people would tell me I'm attractive and that I have a good personality and that I'm nice, sweet, friendly and stuff and these are what friends, cusmtors and random people say but guys Never really appoch me or talk to me, I don't know what I'm doing wrong. Like most of my friends are in relationships right now or they have been and guys apprch/talk to them. But I've only dated 1 guy before. So should I just accept the fact that I'l be single forever and just do whatever. I mean I definitely do have a future like I'm in college for my mba (business) and with my career I do plan on making pretty good money and being a manger or in the financial part and eventually have my own business
Should I just accept the fact no guy would ever like me and that I'll be single forever?
What Guys Said 8
Most people are wary of involvement because of past trauma and disappointment. You can't depend on guys approaching you any longer. Most of us are not into the traditional dating scene where we have to pay for everything and the girl is playing the field on us.
Personally, I stopped doing that at 17. Most of feel girls should meet us halfway, so you may have to approach a guy yourself! Choose one that seems nice, even if shy.
Don't go after the guys with big money. Yu are likely to just be played; those guys are mostly only looking for hook ups and then goodbye.2
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Of course not, you're too young to give up. Don't they approach you? Take the lead of your life and approach them yourself, never count on others to do what you can do yourself. I'm sure you'll get good results.2
If you "accept" that then you are basically guaranteeing it will happen.
You're young, this is the time to have that no strings attached fun because it becomes less common as you get older. There's plenty of time for being serious and settling down later.1
It could be that you are just in the wrong dating pool. You are super cute. You sound like a pretty serious person. This is good, but most people are not very serious and will be intimidated by your drive. Eventually you will meet a serious guy and he will be crazy for you.1
You should do what you want for sure, but don't throw away dating forever just yet! There is still plenty of time for that to happen. Enjoy doing things for yourself and go after what you want while you do not have to worry about anyone else1
You don't be single forever but I have a really attractive female friend who's having the same problem as you! It mostly goes down to the fact that most men aren't looking for a relationship at this time. I'm in college and I think being in a committed relationship would have many challenges, so why try? Plus attractive women are intimidating and a vast majority are promiscuous. As far as I can remember, of all the hot women I've known, only one wasn't messing around. It's just how it is; my opinion is that you just have a stereotype against you.1
Make a bumble
Put yourself out there
It's the 21st century and it's harder to approach women in person now than ever1
What Girls Said 2
You are to young to be even thinking that you will be forever alone, it you have a great future plan for yourself just keep focusing on that and don't worry if a guy doesn't talk to you, it will happen soon.1
You're actually attractive so I doubt that no guy ever had a crush on you.0
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