A guy messaged me through facebook, we had mutual friends and we've been talking and he tries to flirt with me but I don't flirt back because I don't like him that way but one night he messaged me asking if I wanted to go on a date with him and out of panic I just said sure but I really would rather stay friends I don't want to hurt his feelings but I also don't want to date him what should I do?
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you just tell him your mind and don't Lead him on. Leading him on means you will let him think you like him which will make him pursue you further. It doesn't matter if it breaks his heart, you have to tell the truth, he's a man he should be able to take the hit. One of the most things i respected in girls is when they are always completely honest with me. One time i asked a girl out and she told me just in my face 'i really appreciate you asking me out and that's so sweat of you but i apologize you are not my type and i don't want to waste your time for nothing'. I appreciated all her honestly and liked her even more for what she did. Cause what other girls do, they lie, make excuses, don't respond to text, make more excuses and always say 'sorry i can't maybe next week'... etc. Which i find completely and utterly disrespectful and i prefer that a girl tells me "fuck off you are ugly" in the face that having to deal with the shyt that those girls do.1