Not just people on this site... but people in general will try and bully you if you have a preference. They call you names. I am sick of it.
Why do people try to make you feel guilty about having a preference when it comes to dating?
What Guys Said 19
There was a girl who asked a question whether anyone has rejected any girl because of her boob size? The answer could be pretty simple Yes or No. A certain boy said Yes and said he had rejected the girl because of her small boobs. And the girl who was under 18 said his thinking was shallow. I said , very few men will want to select a girl with huge giant size boobs. And she said it is wrong. I told her that Lola Ferrari had died because of big boobs. She still held her view that rejecting any one on account of their boob size irrespective of whether they were very small or too big was a something equivalent to wickedness. So according to her men did not have any choice in this respect.0
I have no guilt at all about my preferences. Guilt trips don't work on me1
People only don't like it when you use that "preference" as a way to judge people. Maybe you like tall guys, and feel like short guys aren't real men and make them feel that way. Maybe you like a certain race, and make people who aren't that race feel like they aren't good enough for you. I prefer blondes, but have dated mostly brunettes. I'm a boob man but have dated plenty of girls with out big boobs. I have a preference not a standard. There is a huge difference...1
I honestly can't say, I have never had anybody express and interest in my preferences dating wise.0
There is nothing wrong with preference , better alone permanently , than with a mediocre person. Being a single dad , my " market value " is near worthless , I knew this on taking main custody , so I don't put myself " out there " ... simply too tired to care most of the time0
I use this, the color of someone's skin should make as much difference as the color of someone's eyes. As I can have an eye color preference then skin is also. okay.0
Their immature. The most important thing in life is your happiness. So do you and be picky. Never settle.0
Everyone has preferences. Some people like to flame for no reason. Dont mind them.1
Because when you have a certain preference. People who don't meet those standards will be offended and feel unworthy and insecure. It will make their self esteem go down.
For example if I say my preference is skinny girls. Big girls will feel insecure. I'm a man who can't grow a beard. When girls said they love men with chin straps I use feel inferior when I heard that.
Am I making sense?0
Its' only 1% of the population that are this level of liberal dimwits. It's the same ones that openly discriminate themselves and claim it's justified0
They just do.0
They are just butt-hurt because they don't fit your preferences. I get that a lot with fat women.1
Its pretty lame I agree.0
yes dont know what happens at dating0
What Girls Said 4
People take it very personal when they don't match up to someone's preference, even if they have no romantic interest in them. If you could potentially like something that isn't them (or the opposite of them) then that means other people could too, which subsequently hurts their ego and self esteem. So instead of dealing with the cards in their hand, they put you down instead.1
Because people are dicks. The amount of dirty looks, comments etc I get about dating older men, I just laugh my ass off nowadays and walk away. Don't let them get to you.1
I think that it's because people have unrealistic expectations about people agreeing with them. Especially, when it's something as personal as dating preferences. It's just ego overriding good sense and empathy.0
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