It was a one time heat of the moment thing. There are no strings attached with the person I slept. Also, the girl I'm dating, we went on our 2nd date a few days ago and we are going on our 3rd date in a few days. We haven't slept yet. Is it cheating? I don't feel guilty though. Should I tell her?
- Yes, it is cheating44%(4)38%(6)Vote29%(2)
- No, it's not cheating56%(5)62%(10)Vote71%(5)
Most Helpful Girl
its only cheating if u two are exclusive.
i voted no.
2 dates is probably not exclusively dating.1
Most Helpful Guy
Since you weren't officially together in a serious committed relationship yet, I wouldn't believe that is cheating. But once you have decided to be in a serious committed relationship with her, then it's time put aside the one night stand hook ups and flings, unless you want to be open to her about it and ask if she'd be interested and okay with an open relationship of some kind? If she is, then great, since you'd get more flexibility.
But if she isn't, then it's best to see how things go first and if a committed relationship works out or not between the two of you. If it doesn't then you'd just end it with her and resume one night stand hook ups, flings, etc.0