Thinking about joining Tinder, although I am NOT looking to hook up. What experiences have people had? I hear most are looking for a casual fling. What is the average age range?
Most Helpful Guy
What I've experienced? Having to swipe literally EVERY girl right to maybe hopefully get 1 or 2 matches. Out of those 1 or 2 matches they are usually either fake profiles spamming links or girls who weigh like 300 lbs with 4 kids. Then the rare times that a decent looking girl matches with me, I only have like a 30% chance that she'll even reply to me. If she does reply, I'm lucky to get more than 1 reply every few days. When I try to get her number or meet her she says she doesn't know me well enough. NO SHIT YOU DON'T KNOW ME WELL ENOUGH. YOU ONLY REPLY EVERY 3 DAYS! Which is why I ask for the number in the first place! Long story short, Tinder is like playing lotto as a guy. As a girl, most guys are gonna be looking to hook up with you but at least you'll get messages and be able to meet people (or get laid if you want to).2
Most Helpful Girl
I wouldn't recommend it for serious dating. I fucked one guy, I went on one and only one date with another who ended up being really weird, and I dated another for like a month and then realized he was on tinder because he was horribly awkward and didn't invest any time in me. I really found that even though I was physically attracted to all those people, if I had met them at a party or in class, their personalities would have been an immediate turnoff and I wouldn't have given them the time of day.1