so i get checked out fairly often, i don't think the problem is my looks?( check out my first question, there are photos) but since i never really get any male attention outside from stares i wonder if maybe it is my looks? i feel so unwanted all the time because everyone else has boyfriends or at least guys interested in them and i don't. i know i seem and look older than a senior in high school so i wonder if that could be it as well? i have also been told i carry myself very maturely for someone in high school and have been mistaken for being 20-21 very often. i'm not even mad about high school guys not being into me because i wouldn't want to date anyone in high school or really under the age of 20. basically i just want to know what i can do to improve my success with guys.
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Be the initiator. Guys more and more aren't bothering because of the "constant" rejection. If women initiated more I think there'd be a lot more relationship and happier ones because generally it's the women that do all the selecting of partners anyway so when you initiate, at least us guys know you are interested in us. Where we are just guessing the rest of the time.1