Everyone always says never settle for less.
You found someone that you REALLY like but:
A. He/She is your ideal type. They're perfect physically... BUT they are very insecure. Have low self esteem. They have a substance addiction (alcohol). They're not happy with their life as well.
B. He/She is okay looking. Not the best.. average.. but they have the most amazing personality. They are absolutely confident with themselves. They have goals in life.
Would you go for the looks or the confidence?
- A. Ideal Type but Insecure46%(25)53%(50)Vote61%(25)
- B. Average/Okay Type with High Confidence54%(29)47%(45)Vote39%(16)
Most Helpful Guy
My ideal type is in no way perfect, i'm very realistic. So i don't know how to answer this, but insecurity in general would be easy to deal with if i cared about her. That would also mean i see potential in her, or i wouldn't even bother. I'm an introvert so a super confident woman would exaust me anyway, as she would be an extrovert.1
Most Helpful Girl
Would have gone with the first until you said alcohol addiction. I can deal with insecurities as long as they're not hateful people... but an alcohol addiction... or any substance addiction... been there, done thatt... not interested. Substance abusers do things like cheat and lie as well and I'm just not into that.
You can be insecure and not have bigger issues. I wouldn't even say my boyfriend and I necessarily have high confidence as much as we're both pretty emotionally stable people with healthy viewpoints. We acknowledge our issues without treating people like crap because of them.0