Guys are you more likely to take advantage of someone who is there for your every beck and call vs someone who stands their ground. What type of females do guys take advantage of?
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Yes, it is like that for both girls and guys. It is always better to stand up for yourself and speak your mind. Don't let someone take advantage of you, don't be at their beck and call. I've been there done that for a girl, and it ended badly and after a while I realized that I was used. I hated her for a while, but I realized it's not worth it. Sometimes it's unintentional and they don't realize it, and sometimes they know what their doing. I've done it before, but I can't anymore after experiencing it. Whenever you do that, you are basically announcing that they can have you whenever they want instead of them having to work for it, as everyone should have to. Be courteous and nice, but don't be too nice. When you're too nice, and give too much, people begin to think that's normal and expect more. Don't let that start or its hard if not impossible to stop with that particular person. Be strong, voice what you want and say how you feel. If you don't want to do that, just at least don't do everything they ask. If it puts you in a position that takes time away from you, don't do it, unless it's something major like they got into a wreck or something. But if they are asking of you can pick up their laundry or something, don't even bother. Good luck, and I hope you don't let someone do that, because sometimes they really don't even realize it. Just stand your ground and speak what you want!1