Most Helpful Guy
Being cheated on every time means bad judgement on your part and a big red flag for guys. All of it could have been avoided with some paying attention to personality. I don't know whether people do it or not all the time but to those who have, I've seen it up close and they bring baggage. Quite annoying when they interrogate you so the moment I see red flags I say nope. I'm out. That's how it should be.0
Most Helpful Girl
Betrayal is so painful so it's inevitable people will feel more guarded with someone new , because they don't want to go through that emotional pain again.
If a person has heard all the promises from an ex, but yet their trust was misplaced , those promises become meaningless empty words. So that person who's been betrayed knows first hand how promises aren't a guarantee. They start to lack faith in another another person's words and promises
I try to judge someone based on their own character rather than judge them based on someone else's wrongdoing, but it's not always that easy.
I'm guarded when I first meet someone, but after they earn my trust I'll trust them until THEY give me a valid reason not to trust them1