- overly emotional and sensitive; he always cries like will call me at 2 am crying saying he misses me even though we saw each other 2 days ago
- always all over me like in a needy way
- talks about our future too much and it's only been a few months
- just clingy and annoying
tried to break up before but he guilt tripped me to staying by crying and stuff
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The problem is that you are allowing yourself to feel guilty for merely exercising your right to free choice. We enter into relationships through free choice on the basis that both parties bring something to the relationship that makes it worthwhile and that neither party brings anything that makes the relationship more painful than pleasurable. This guy has broken his part of that pact. He is bringing toxicity into the relationship through his overly needy nature. As such, you now have the free choice to be able to leave the relationship.
Don't be persuaded by his emotional behaviour and that includes if he should attempt any emotional blackmail. Someone being is upset is NEVER a reason to stay in a relationship, no matter how upset they are. If they use being upset as leverage then they are being manipulative, pure and simple.
Have the courage of your convictions and cut this guy loose. He needs to learn self control so that he stops being a fire blanket that snuffs out the relationship fire. If he needs a reason just tell him straight, that his inability to control his emotions is stifling and it's really put you off him in a romantic sense.3