I recently met a guy through an online dating site. He has told me that he is recently divorced (earlier this year) after a brief (less than 2 years) marriage. He has said he is looking for a serious relationship, but when I checked out his fb he still has all their pictures together on it? Should I be concerned that he might not have moved on yet?
He still has his ex wife on his fb?
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I might not be the best guy to answer this, but I don't think you should be concerned at all. In fact, you should be supportive. I went through a pretty ugly divorce and because of it, I find myself romanticizing situations where a divorced couple is able to be civil or even friendly to each other. I had this friend, David and he and his wife got divorced several years ago. They're on great terms. She got the cat in the divorce and a few years ago, the cat had to be put down. They went to the vet together and were both in the room when the cat was euthanized. They said their goodbyes, wept together, and blah blah blah. His girlfriend was REALLY jealous about it but he felt that what she was really jealous about was that she and her ex-husband are on really bad terms.
So yeah, I suppose it's possible that he's still nailing his ex-wife, and the hypocritical thing is that if it were an ex-girlfriend, I would tell you to be really cautious. But a divorce is not a break up -- it's serious business. I would give this guy the benefit of the doubt and like I said, even encourage that he has a good relationship with her, particularly if kids are involved.1
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