I went on a second date with a guy and he is clearly interested in me. He asked me to text him in the morning after the date was over. I'm not sure if I should though because I feel the ball should be in his court and I'm used to guys being the one to always message first. I'm thinking its possible he is insecure and wants to make sure I'm interested and not seem too clingy? or am I making excuses and he should still be the one to message me first?
Most Helpful Guy
Why should he be the one to message first? Do you want equality or not? He has already asked you to text so he's made the first move in that sense. Just text him. If you wait and he waits then nobody texts and the whole thing ends up nowhere.2
Most Helpful Girl
Message the guy. your over thinking it. just say hey good morning. let him carry the conversation from there.2