I'm not gonna go into details, but it's about unrequited love.
I'm in a very bad place right now, so if you could give me some tips that would make my day.
Thanks in advance.
Most Helpful Guy
Think of a break up as a mental test to prove to yourself you are strong enough to pour your heart out to another person to have it get crushed in an instant.
Having your heart broken is a chance to grow, deeply think about who you are as a person. Get more in sync with your thoughts and feelings. When me and my ex broke up who I really liked a lot and it was turning into love, I took my hurt self and learned a lot about myself. Nothing is more satisfying than growing mentally. It's a process of maturing. I believe pain that you can survive will build your character and if done properly will make you a better person.
Also, find a hobby. A tip to finding a hobby, try new things and find something that you get a feeling of satisfaction from.1
Most Helpful Girl
Focus on the reality of the situation. Let go of the fantasy of what you want, try to avoid thinking "If only this" or "If it was just a little different", because that isn't how it is. If that person were the right person for you, the simply fact is they would reciprocate feelings. You don't want to force anything, and you shouldn't have to. You, just like anyone, deserve a relationship with someone who wants only them and acts on those feelings. As long as you keep reminding yourself of this reality, you'll find you can slowly adjust emotionally, and upon reflection you'll find your feelings were based on an idea of someone that just wasn't accurate okay. I hope that helps.2