If a guy is not really looking for something serious and long-term but meets a girl, is it possible that he could view the situation as knowing that it would be something serious and so he refrains from pursuing her because he is not focused on that? Do some girls give off that "serious" vibe where you don't even try playing those "dating games" with them and keep your distance because you know you can see yourself being serious with her?
Not necessarily that anything she SAID made you know she was looking for something serious, I really mean just a girl's vibe or the chemistry you have with her where you know you'd be in deep so you avoid it.
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Guys who are selfish/narcissistic will just do whatever they want to do to get what they want. Guys who actually care, though, will take her needs (or her assumed desires) into consideration and, yes, they might choose not to approach a girl who seems to be a "relationship type" if they aren't looking for a relationship - because one of the things they're looking to avoid by avoiding relationships is DRAMA, and starting a relationship that doesn't share such a critical goal is destined to bring with it a lot of drama.2