So I noticed the guy I dated for a few months has been looking me up on my Instagram.. he seems to check up on on my profile once a month and views my story. This was a guy who wanted to keep his options open and didn't want to put a label on our relationship. I'm just curious if he's looking me up because he's bored or because he has regrets? (We've been doing no contact for 6 months) do men usually stalk their ex's social media? if so, even the ones they weren't interested enough to commit?
Do men keep tabs of their exes on social media?
What Guys Said 6
Only losers do that. I personally don't. I have too much self respect to be stalking an 'ex'.1
I think I did it when I was younger for a short time but eventually found it stupid0
Noooo thanks - block her is best after the filthy stuff she did & how0
My ex is a stalker so I got a computer buddy to put an app my phone so I could know where she is at all times using her social media account. She often bes around my place in the middle of the night just standing there.
nope. Never. Don't care.0
What Girls Said 3
I have an ex that would do that. And he also stares at me if he sees me in public. It's kind of creepy.
He cheated on me and when I confronted him he denied it, even though I had proof. I decided to leave him because I couldn't trust him. Yet he would like my pictures I posted and comment like we were still friends.
I deleted him and I am so glad I did! It was really awkward having him keep tabs on me like that. Like he cheated on me, we are definitely not friends.0
he sounds like a stalker0
Some do. I have several exes hit me up now and then to keep a backup - even when they have a woman. Same with some of my friends - guys send them a "what's up" just enough to be suspicioUs.0
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