A lot of girl say they dont like when a guy asks if he can kiss her, they expect a guy to be able to read her body language and signs, basically read her mind, and kiss her when she wants it.
Ok, this is a bit too much to ask for from very inexperienced guys. A guy could end up misreading you and try to kiss her when she doesn't want it.
So girls which would you rather have, a guy asking just to be safe, or risking that a guy tries kissing you when you dont want to and you end up akwardly dodging it?
Most Helpful Girl
I think the hard truth is she's either into you or not. (Same as guys for gals). As long as you don't maul her, the small details aren't as important as if she's attracted to you and gets along with you.
The liberating part is that going for it is all you can do. Worrying about hundreds of ways you can screw up just makes you feel bad.0
Most Helpful Guy
It's really not that hard to tell if someone is into you or not, if she responds to your flirting, looks at you a lot, laughs at all your jokes, smiles at you and just has all her attention on you then there's a good chance that she likes you. Now when you're going for a kiss don't just rush and kiss her before she has a chance to react. First you should establish a situation where you're comfortable with making contact with each other like maybe you were walking her home and now you're kinda holding her in your arms just make sure you two are comfortable being close to each other. Then you could just get your face closer to hers and say something like "you know, I never noticed just how beautiful your lips are" while looking down at them, and honestly 99 times out of 100 she is gonna get hint that you want to kiss her so if she responds positively just continue with anything like "I gotta have a taste" and just slowly go for a kiss. As long as you just take it step by step there's a very low chance of it becoming too awkward.0