I'm a 25 year old virgin guy. Reason is because I used to be a serious Christian and when I was 18 I joined the priest hood and became a priest at 20.
Last year I stopped believing and now I'm an atheist. But I'm a 25 year old virgin and I'm ashamed of it. And I have to now let go of my religious past and learn to live as a nonreligious person. I met this girl and she's really cool. She had like 3 long term partners before me. I lied to her and told her I had a few partners from long term relationships, because I wanted to seem more "normal" and less Lame.
We had sex for the first time earlier today, So right now I am no longer a virgin. It was amazing for me and according to her she liked it a lot.
But I feel guilty I lied to her, and that she doesn't know that I was a virgina and she was my first. I never told her because I was afraid she would think less of me. Or worse she wouldn't want to be with me.
My question for girls is..
How would you feel personally if you were in these girls shoes?
My question for guys is what would you do in my shoes?
Would you be mad if someone lied to you about not being a virgin after sex?
What Girls Said 2
Well, you didn't have sex bc of religious reasons, any person wouldn't think that's weird. So I dont think she would mind. You should tell her the truth. Maybe she'll like to be your first. I wish i was my bf's first, i hate to think that he put his penis in other women's vaginas.0
well yeah, cuz they LIED.0
What Guys Said 3
Even though it's good to be honest you have something good you got it good here at the moment so don't ruin it does not matter now your no longer a virgin just tell her that's the best sex you have ever had even though it's a lie because she is his your first but it's not a seriously terrible lie so don't worry about if you feel like you don't want to lie to her them tell her by all means but if she really likes you she would get over it0
You aren't the first guy who told that lie. Nothing dramatic, in my opinion.
Either you admit you lie, or you just don't talk again about your virginity or lack of it.
If you admit you lied, she'll smile about it.
I wouldn't tell her, I understand why you said you've had experience, you had to lie because you were scared she wouldn't bother with you because you're a virgin.0
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