I love him and he tells me he loves me back, but only when i say it first. he puts his family as number one on his priority list, i dont mind this because family is family. i dont have a large family and im not close to them, so i wonder but i never get mad at that. However, he also puts his friends before me. he doesn't reply when he's out with friends, he says he can't play games with me because he has a premade team with his friends.. so i play alone. i try to call him because i want to talk to him in the evening. he leaves because he has to go to bed everytime. i try to communicate my problem about his neglect, but he brushes it aside and says im making a big deal out of nothing. when i texted him, he was making sexual comments. when we plan to meet up he replies quickly though, because we usually end up having sex. We dont really do anything special, its almost always sex and eating together. we dont go on dates or do anything like other couples do. I'm started to become more doubtfulof his feelings for me. despite all that i dont want to leave him, what should i do?
Most Helpful Guy
While every guy needs SOME time with his friends, and may have family obligations (especially if he lives with his family), it definitely doesn't sound like he's really making much of an effort for you. Normally, a guy will scale back his time with his friends and make time for his girl, or at least will include her in most of his activities with his friends.
Since he's not making any effort, I recommend you end it and find someone who will make you more of a priority. You can't expect a guy to spend every available moment with you - again, he needs time for other things too - but you definitely should expect more than you're getting now - especially in overall attitude.0
Most Helpful Girl
If I were in your position, I'd reconsider the relationship and I'd think about the possibility of breaking up with someone who doesn't seem to give much of a crap about me.0