Hi all, I met a girl who is very sweet, she seems very kind and educated and have the prettiest eyes and smiles. The reasons that is holding me back from asking her out are:
1) She is probably more intelligent. She studies law and I study commerce, both of us at different top universities. But in general it seems that law is a smarter course than commerce. Not that I have a problem with girls smarter than myself, in fact I quite like them. I fear that intelligent girls in general might not want to choose a guy who seems less intelligent. I feel like I need to study the law course to have the confidence to date her. Although this is not how she seem to feel.
2) Lawyers get paid more in general than an accountant? I am guessing? This is pretty much gonna be our futures. She becomes a lawyer, and I would end up an accountant hopefully with a CA. average experienced CA accountants get paid 80k -120k annually, and some really good ones can get 150k - 200k plus. I assume lawyers get more than that.
So yeah if you are the law chick would the facts above make me less attractive to you? I know this sounds somewhat shallow, to consider someone purely based on how much they earn. But hey common the reality is that there are smarter and richer guys out there, and better looking even, I am trying to rationalize why a girl in that position would give me a chance.
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So first off, if you are going to a top university that means you are probably fairly intelligent. Just because you have different majors doesn't mean there is a huge discrepancy between your levels of intelligence. Yeah lawyers usually make bank (accountants don't do that bad either), but why does that stop you from asking her out now? You can't base your decisions based solely on the fact that she will eventually make more money than you. Many couples do not make equal pay, and that doesn't stop them from being together. As for the smarter, richer, better looking guys; good looks are in the eye of the beholder so she might think you are the best looking guy she has ever met. Richness only matters with gold diggers. When it comes to money with a guy, all I really want is some sort of stability. The amount really doesn't matter. Plus, she will have a well paying job, anyways. As for smarter, most girls don't wish they could date Steven Hawking or Albert Einstein, so I really don't think that is a problem.
So to sum up everything, give her a chance before you try to rationalize why she could never want you.0