Hello there, I would appreciate that you provide us guidance in such situation.
I've told my friend Paul that I like Laura. Both are best friends, nevertheless I assumed that by telling my feelings to Paul he would provide an outside help.
Lately, Laura has been avoiding me. Thus, I think that Paul told what I feel to Laura, which I didn't want to happen. This is only an assumption, hoping that I am wrong on this one. However, There's nothing other than that which could explain this weird situation.
Usually when we saw each other, we greet each other with a kiss on the cheek and all. However, now I feel like she's being distant.
Is it possible that she previously had a crush on me and she's shy? Is she indirectly turning me down?
What is happenning? Should I avoid her too? Should I distant myself and wait till she reaches out again by herself?
Thank you for your help.
- She's shy and doesn't know how to tell you that she feels the sameVote A
- She is rejecting youVote B
- She is unsure about her feelingsVote C
- ResultsVote D
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I think Paul told her. Although I don't know if she's rejecting you. Maybe she feels shocked or a little embarrassed because she doesn't know what she wants? I know when I was younger i was that way. Is she confident when she's dating anyone? If not then that's a possibility. I think you should talk to her, and as much as it may hurt, if it is a rejection let her know that you still care about her and you'll respect what she wants. It'll salvage the friendship if you want to keep her in your life.1
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