But strong feeling i mean more then just a friend, like the feeling are their, they are somewhat strong. But not close too the feeling your looking for.
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Hmm. I'll be honest with you. That electrifying feeling you may have felt with an ex was primarily lust and just puppy love (unless you guys dated more than a year.) I know because I felt the same.
When you're in love it won't be a huge slap to the face or the intense hallelujah moment you thought (or I thought lol.) It's more of the amount of effort you are willing to put in to stay with this person.
Can you picture your life without this person? Can you get over losing them easily? Would you accept their flaws just to be with them?
I'm not telling you to settle, but I don't want you to keep lookin for something you may never find. Sure the excitement with the ex (an example) was great, but it fades fast. Commitment is more important for a longterm relationship.
I hope I was somewhat helpful. Let me know if you have questions! I know I word things weird.
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