So I met this guy and we have been talking everyday and we are supposed to go out in a few days. Well he is smart, cute, fubny, has same values and interests, but a few things really bug Me. For one, he dips (tobacco), and he makes remarks about being drunk and stuff. I don't thin he drinks a lot but he acts like its cool. and also he is dropping college Togo into construction, which is fine, but it makes me feel like he isn't trying? I also have issues with getting close to people so I don't know if I'm just looking for issues to justify canceling the date or if I should.
Most Helpful Guy
ehhh you really have to get to know him more. Will he be a drunk and abuse you? Is he going to smoke all the time even in house. Will money be an issue and is he going to be able to support a family that way?0
Most Helpful Girl
Tell him you like him but you have a few concerns and tell him what they are and that they are potential deal breakers. College is not for everyone and he can make good money in construction. Nothing wrong with blue collar.0