I have a problem but again its sort of an open discussion.
When dating is it ever okay for the girl to reach to her wallet and pick up the whole tab?
i usually tell the guy that I would pay for my half because I know how hard he works to make his money, plus I feel less obligated to be extra nice or kiss the guy because he got me dinner or whatever it is was.
sometime I'm just getting to know the guy and things are casual, and he would be okay with me paying, I let the first time slip, but then if it happens again I just start getting really annoyed ...
what is okay and what is not? what about you guys? how does it work with you? and am I weird for paying for my half all the time? and are those guys supposed to always be okay with me paying for my half and never offer again?
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I'm just as curious to see the replies also. I see no problem with a girl wanting to pay half of a tab or if she feels the whole tab. Long as both parties agree on it I see no problem with it . Say maybe he covers the 1st time you cover the next time. This has always been the guy footing the bill because guys always did the asking out and way back when the guys were the ones with paying jobs. But like everything else things change is it for the good who knows. So now we have ladies asking guys out so I see no reason that it can't be equal.0