my ideas/thoughts of first dates/dates in general are based strictly on fun. usually when I go out with a girl for the first time, I'll take her maybe mini golfing, go carting, batting cages, tubing, amusement parks you know whatever she is interested in. then after once we are done with all of the fun, I take her out to eat somewhere then take her home. are dates like these types of dates once that makes a girl only look at you as a friend?
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I would say yes those are what you would call friend dates. Most of those activities are during the day, and more than likely it won't just be the two of you, it will be more like a group thing. Even if you go out to dinner afterwards, unless you take her home first and then go back out, your not going to want to go to a restaurant that is a date type of restaurant, just due to the fact that your going to be dressed for it.
Then when you take her home chances are you will both be tired, maybe sunburned and instead of going for a kiss, it will end up with a hug and the old I had a really fun time, we should do this again, and then you never hear from the chick again after that.1