I met this guy online and he started to call me. anyway I have found him strange sometimes, but I don't know if this is a red flag. I have no idea, actually
we talk for over a month and he came up with the idea that we should meet. Even at the beginning I've been a bit reserved, now I like the idea, and I told him how happy I would be to meet him.
his work require a lot of travel, but now he is home. I thought we are going to see each other this weekend, but he didn't say anything about that. we barely talked.
I have thinking that I must call him, because it was him the only one who was calling (we talk for hours). the strange thing is that I called on Saturday and his phone was off. I thought he was sleeping and that's why he kept it off. But I tried to call him on Sunday too. his mobile phone was off...
this is a serious red flag from my point of view. If he is not in a hurry to come to see me, even is obvious we like each other, and he keeps his mobile phone off, I think something is wrong. I know he has 2 mobile phones cause I heard the other one ringing while we were talking
please tell me what do you think about that? I really need your help.
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Just be careful. There's of course always a risk with online dating. My advice is: wait until he contacts you. But if your gut is telling you something is not right, listen to your instincts. DON'T ignore your instincts; they're there for a reason. Best of luck.0