How come When I started dating a black guy all my black girl friends ignored me?
Its Really Starting to hurt my feelings Tea was my best friend now that I'm dating Kenny she avoids me like the plague?
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Hey I'm a black girl I'm gonna answer this one lol
Okay without knowing the dynamics of you and Tea's frienship personally, and the dynamics of the relationships you have with the other friends...I'm gonna assume that it wasn't just because he was a black guy it was the fact that you're dating Kenny. Because look at it like this, if you're white and you have a lot of black friends then its not like they're racist, also usually white girls who hang with black girls usually date black guys (and vice versa for black girls who hang with white girls)...so if you dated any old black guy I don't think they would get mad, its probably that Tea or somebody else liked Kenny and was jealous that you got him. And then she turned all her friends against you. She wasn't your real friend anyway if she was gonna do that0