After our first date where he cooked me shrimp scallops wine and dine watched movie laughed and it was raining so I DID NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM but I slept at his place..we did kiss and everything and started playing words w friends.. but now he won't call me, text me, I wrote on his FB page and he deleted my post. we clicked so well. is he done or is he playing games to get my attention. btw I'm 28 and he's 33. both of us have a good profession. I'm so confused. GUYS BE HONEST. HOLLA
Now he won't call me or text me?
What Guys Said 4
Sounds like after all he's hard work he probably expected you to put out! I think you did the right thing by not sleeping with him. You sound like a girl with good morals and that's hard to find. If he can not see that in you then basically he is the loser - just put the trash out.0
The rain kind of sounds romantic to me. Looking out the window while getting close.
Talk to him. If he stop calling because you won't have sex with him, that's his problem. If he's playing games at 33, move on quick. You can get plenty of guys. Believe it or not, most men respect women who don't have sex right away.0
From your question I think you are right.
But did you ever talk with him on face to face after this?
if yes so what did he tell you. Is he angry with you for your mistake which you don't know.
if no you first do this thing.you both are mature so you can understand eachother.if he do not want to talk with you there is problem with him. You can say he used only for his enjoyment.0
What Girls Said 1
He could be dating around and another female asked about your post, so he decided to save face and delete it. It seems innocent to me but I think he knows it is an inside thing between the two of you so he is afraid the other girls won't like it or figure it out. Guys are weird. I would not risk losing a good woman for some other not-so-worthy females but I guess they prefer options over the real thing.0
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