Why are all physically attractive girls taken/or dumb/smoke and sh*t... and then all untaken and smart/intelligent girls not physically attractive ?
Is there really any middle ground in this because I haven't found it...
for example this girl likes me, and I would go along with it... but I just don't find her physically attractive in the least, and it annoys me :/
So my question to you boys and girls, Is there a middle ground ? Are there any smart, attractive and serious (not party girls) girls out there that are NOT looking for flings ?
Because as it is now, the only ones that are serious, I seem to not be attracted to :/
P.S. Don't call me shallow, I'm not. Would you date someone you didn't have the slightest bit of physical spark for ?
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actually, a lot of people can suprise you...i'm not going to label you as shallow or anything but the thing is, a lot of girls might put on that appearance but its not who they really are. at the same time, a lot of girls appear and act stupid for attention but aren't and sometimes even party girls have brains and are smarter than you think. I was somewhat the same way when it came to guys but then I met a wonderful guy who was a smoker and a huge druggie...i wasen't attracted to him at all at first but then I started to know him better and actually liked him! at the same time, I'm not big on party's nor drugs but he just gave me this little spark...i have also dated model guys and he was better than any of them...i just felt truly comfortable around him and when I got to know him better I found out stuff about him that I really didn't know from looking at him such as the fact that he is at the top of his class etc. so some girls are deciving...i say you give one of those "dumb" girls a chance because most likely they have brains but just put on that attitude to get attention...
**help me please? thanks!0