Met a man last night at an event at a bar. Talked for a good amount of time getting to know each other. He gave me his number and said to text him with my number. Then said to call him when I'm free so we could go out. I told my friend and she said DON'T call him. That he should call me no matter what.
I don't want to be the CHASER. I want to be the CHAS-EE. What should I do?
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For petes sake, you ALREADY agreed to call him last night! If he said you should call him, and you agreed, then he is expecting you to call. If you'd said "no" at the time, that would be different, now you've already agreed that he will wait for your call.
He will never call you now, and if you don't call him, he will think you don't like him, he'll find some other girl and you'll never see him again.
Don't be stupid. Breaking an agreement over some 1950's, out-dated idea that women should never call me is ridiculous, and it will lose you a lot of great guys.0