So my girlfriend made an account on this site called "Tagged." Apparently it's a place for friends and dating. She didn't fill out the section for relationship. She posted a hot profile picture of her in a bathing suit. She added many guy friends. She joined a chat room, but I have no idea what was spoken. Worst of all she added a guy friend who's profile said that if any girls wanted to see him touch himself and come on webcam they can IM him. MY GIRLFRIEND ASKED FOR HIS IM! She persisted to say that she only wanted it to call him a perv and stuff. She insists that she wants to be with me, even though I want to break up with her because I feel like her inexperience is getting in the way. I feel like it is causing her to become curious what it's like to be with another man. Or maybe I don't satisfy her? I am the only guy she has ever slept with and we have been together for over 8 months. She has only hooked up with one other guy before, besides a middle school kiss or something. She is very inexperienced and I'm wondering why she was doing this. The second she found out I knew about it she deleted it and said it was only for fun. What should I make of this!?!?!?
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First off, I'm surprised that site is still around. I heard about it around 2005.
Now to answer your question:
She's obviously insecure. She's seeking attention from people on the internet to fulfill it. When you found out, she gladly deleted it. She wants attention, your attention. Although she may not know how to say it, it's what she wants. Note how she hasn't done anything with anyone in real life simply because she cares about you, but she doesn't understand how to go about it. Your problem might be that you all lack communication. If you really care about her sit down and actually talk with her about how confident she feels with you and work on making it better for both of you.
That's the best idea I have because I'm going through the exact same thing with my boyfriend, but a little more complicated.1