So tomorrow I have my first date with this really cute guy! He's sweet and funny and handsome^^ and 5 years older then me...
And I think he kinda might be out of my league... And I always get kinda nervous on dates. And I haven't dated in 1,5 years...
He's coming over here by train, and I'm picking him up and then we're going to this huge park with a bottle of wine and we're gonna lay on the grass and talk and stuff. (It's gonna be a really warm day tomorrow) And then we're gonna go and have dinner somewhere, and if all goes well we'll maybe even play some pool afterward.
And I need tips and stuff, like what to do and what not to do? Fun things and stuff like that...
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First of all, try and mitigate that nervousness. Remember, he WANTS to see you, he WANTED to go on this date with you; So he likes you that much, right? Probably more. So relax.
Second, and actually carrying on from the first; He likes you for who he's seen you as, he likes you for you, so just be that person. You don't need to be bubbly or slutty or anything outside your natural personality, just be receptive and enjoy being together. You do like him don't you? So enjoy being with him, spending time with him. Be relaxed, ready to have a good time, and be YOURSELF. We don't all want to date 'that girl', we prefer someone who's real.
As for the actual date, just let it happen. You're meeting like this to be with each other and to get to know each other better. Ask about him, his life, and be open to talk about yours; Or who knows? You might even just talk about random sh!t, whatever. The actual topic doesn't really matter, it's mostly about communicating, getting to know each other.
Many people would say there is a whole slew of thing you're not supposed to do on a date; I think just be nice.You probably have a pretty good idea of general public courtesy, so just run with that, maybe a little less as you do like him, for jokes or whatever.