I've been going out with my girlfriend for about a month and am real happy with how things have been going but it bothers me that we haven't kissed yet. She's never had a bf/been kissed so she's nervous about it. I've made out with a few girls so I'm fine with kissing but what can I do/say to help her feel more comfortable? I'd still like it to just kind of happen without a bunch of discussion before hand but I also don't want her to be caught off guard and be even more nervous.
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Hehe, this reminded me of my first kiss... =)
We were playing pool in his basement, and as he walked by me he leaned in to kiss me. I accidentally moved (lol, oops), and he got my cheek. He was gonna keep walking around the table to take his shot, but I kissed him before he got by me. And that all happened in just a few seconds. =). Pretty much, just go for it, try to catch her off guard even. Just a peck at first if you want, so you don't make her freak out lol. She'll see that it's not really something to be completely nervous about. After you get a peck or two in, just tell her to copy you at first. That's kinda what I did, but my boyfriend didn't have to tell me. And a bit after that day, he told me that I'm a great kisser, which I'm assuming is mainly because I did a lot of what he did, and that's what he likes. Good luck to you both! =)0