OK, we're on a break-I instigated it because I thought our relationship was on the verge of ending and thought time out would help us get our heads sorted, and I have exams. We've not talked for almost 4 weeks- except for one time VERY early on in the break where I missed him horribly and texted him, otherwise I felt like I would go insane. This break has made me want more than ever to work on things, so before anyone just says move on, please don't. I've already considered it and I feel we have too much to get from this relationship and I want to try- he may not feel the same way.
Anyway, last night (scratch that this morning at 3:25) he texted me, saying 'I doubt you're awake, but I just wanted to make sure you're ok and your exams are going alright. Hope to speak to you soon. X' Now- we're still on a break until my final exam on Wednesday- is there any benefit to texting him/calling him back now? Will waiting until Wednesday upset the balance? I don't really know what to do with that. Mainly because part of my head is going, that's just a friendly text, he still doesn't want me back. but the other part is like, he texted you, out of the blue, at 3:25. That's not just a friendly text.
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It's not a friendly text! Not when he's up at 3:25 in the morning and your on his mind. Think about it, he was thinking of you and out of the blue texted you! He misses you girl! And if you don't want to move on and want to try things out again, why not just go for it. Text him back and answer what asked you. And tell him that exams are almost over, that after exams if he wants to join you and hang out...like a celebration to the exams being finished! That's a start..then go from there!