e been dating a wonderful man now for the past two months. We are both 30 years old. I am crazy about him, but recently discovered that he has been sneakily looking through my phone. Then I discovered he also went though my computer files snooping for info. He checked my photos, tried to check my financial statement which was privacy locked) and viewed other random files.
I've talked with friends and some say this is normal and others say he is possessive and insecure and I need to cut it off now. I'd like to hear from men and hear what you have to say. Is this normal or completely psycho for a man to do (and so early on). Also noteworthy is the fact that I haven't given him a reason to distrust me. Admittedly, I checked an ex's phone (in the past) but we were together years before I did it and he had given me a reason. I've only been with this man for two months?
Advice is greatly appreciated :)
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I think it's possessive and insecure to say the least - if a woman I was dating so clearly demonstrated that she didn't trust me and invaded my privacy to that same extent, I would end things right then and there and not look back.0