Try the 'nice guy' out for a change, while you still can. When the time comes that you realize you want a serious relationship and a 'partner', you will probably decide you want a 'nice guy', as they are usually the 'relationship type'. However, at this point, you may experience great difficulty attaining a 'nice guy' because they are no longer very nice. They become bitter, and don't want to deal with woman, especially 'hot' ones, who back in college wouldn't sleep with them. So instead of wasting your time with the players, use good judgment and think ahead and of what you could be missing.
Just wanted to throw that out there.
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The thing is...a lot of guys pretend to be "nice" even if they aren't. Just because a guy is less attractive and on the quiet side, doesn't mean he is a nice guy. Some of these guys are bitter and misogynistic. You can't just say because you don't get a lot of girls that makes you a nice guy. it just means that you don't have much game or aren't attractive to most girls for whatever reason.
Honestly it doesn't sound like the guys you're talking about are very nice guys. like he couldn't get laid in college so now he's a bitter asshole who hates women. so what about him is nice? just because a guy is passive and nerdy doesn't mean he's a nice guy. it just means that he probably HAS to be nice...if you become hateful and mean because you couldn't get sex how does that make you any different then the players and jerks out there? that's right it doesnt.
there are actually plenty of girls out there who don't get a lot of attention from guys and who get overlooked a lot so why don't "nice guys" go for girls like that? oh that's right because they are probably less attractive then the hot girls that you fantasize about. that is hypocritical in itself because the "nice guys" are standing by waiting on the hot girls and getting mad at them for being shallow and going after the "jerks" but those same guys don't go after the "nice girls" for the very same reasons..
attraction is a big part in who you choose to date. that's why nice guys dream about hot girls and not nice girls. so instead of acting like girls should just ignore physical attraction and go for the less appealing nice guys, why not become more masculine and confident and then you will be more attractive to girls? the problem with nice guys is that they are typically desperate for approval, people pleasing, passive and weak. that's not really attractive to most girls. we are hardwired to go for a guy that is strong physically and mentally. so if you're not that way try to get like that instead of being bitter and trying to "convince" girls to be "logical" (lol) and ignore who they're attracted to and settle for less. because I don't see too many nice guys going for girls who are more like them1