I've been dating this guy for about a month now. The thing is, he hasn't kissed me yet. He leans in very close to me, bring his face closer to mine so much so that we breathe in each others air but he doesn't go for the kill. Mind you, this would be my first kiss. He is not a shy guy, no, not at all, and has had many girlfriends. He has confessed to me that he loves me and that I'm the first girl he has ever loved. My question is: should I be the one to initiate the kiss?
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I think that he is really nervous about it since he loves you and he is afraid that if he makes a move too fast, he could freak you out and strain the relationship. I think that you should somehow bring up that he won't freak you out on something like a kiss. If he is nervous, it should somewhat assuage his fears. I think that you should let him give the kiss, but certainly make sure that he knows that you are up for it (not right before the kiss, but you get the idea (unless it works out that way) Hope I was of some help and good luck1