He is pretty nice and extremely intelligent. We can have long discussions, for hours at a time. Our fundamental beliefs and values are pretty similar. However, he is pretty socially awkward, people I know say that he is sort of cocky and a bit of a jerk, and I do not really think he is attractive. I don't mind that he is socially awkward because I am as well, and I will give him the benefit of the doubt when it comes to him being cocky or a jerk. My main problem is the attraction thing. I know from experience that it is hard to have a relationship with someone who you are not attracted to, but this guy DOES have quite a lot of redeeming qualities. What do you think?
- Yes, date this guy, he seems awesome!Vote A
- It depends (please elaborate in comments section)Vote B
- No, do not date this guy, it is a bad idea (please elaborate in comments section)Vote C
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I'm just going off of your general question here: I dated someone that I wasn't physically attracted to. But I was emotionally attracted because we could click, and we had a lot in common. Plus I knew deep down that I would probably fall for him hard, I just wasn't sure about his physical appearance. But I still went out with him and now I've fallen hard. He's everything I want and need, and I am attracted to him physically very much. He's the most attractive guy in my eyes. Emotionally and physically.1