for the past two years my partner and I had been having a rough time of it, fighting all the time and never doing anything together because of it and never trying to talk about our problems like adults , he would say I was controlling because I asked him to text or call before he heads home so I know when to start cooking dinner so it wouldn't be stone cold when he got home because he works all different hours and because sometimes I would need him to watch the kids and he wouldn't be home when he said he would and wouldn't call to let me know all our fights were over stupid things like that. So after a while I started getting a weird feeling and did the naughty e-mail check up yes I know invasion of privacy but he was the moron who got me to set up his e-mail account and never changed the pass word ,and while I was looking at them an e-mail for a dating site come in and I went and looked at his profile he had listed in his 'looking for' all the things I am not! and tried contacting much younger girls with those qualities when I confronted him about he he tried to make out I was setting him up or maybe one of the guys he did a take course with did it as a joke then finally that he just wanted somebody to talk to about our relationship problems but I just don't buy it am I right to be worried?
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Becareful on your approach on this subject. Should you be worried? Um, you should be trying to pull him back in on his free will. I say this because even if he is thinking of cheating or has, you can't force him to admit it. You can only open his eyes to show him why he is still with you. I suggest you read Gary Neuman's, "The Truth about cheating". One of close female friends just read thatt book and foudn some "interesting insights" (her words not mine). This is only if you are interested in keeping him. But please remember that you deserve a man to be straight forward and honest with you. This man needs to open his eyes or leave. That choice is really up to you. Whatever you choose to do, just put your heart first. Because at the end of the day you can love him, but remember to love yourself more.
Good luck to you.0