This bugs me. What makes girls want to date a guy and what makes girls not want to date a guy?
Most Helpful Girl
Well, it really depends.
If a random guy walked up to me and asked me out, I would consider:
His conversation skills -- don't use a pick up line with me. actually have a short conversation with me that is going to leave me wanting to get to know you more
His appearance -- if I don't know anything about you, your appearance is really going to matter. I don't go for the super hot guys and I don't go for the ugly guys. So, no extremes on the spectrum. Somewhere in the middle is fine
My mood -- already thing that decides whatever I will agree to a date or not is if I'm in a good mood that day. I know this sounds stupid, but if I'm having a bad day and you approach me, I'm going to walk away. Nothing personal, it's not you, it's me
A friend/someone that I've known for a while:
This is trickier because I know so much about this person that they're familiar to me, almost like family. To get me to go out with a friend, the guy is going to have to do something out of the norm. Something that I wouldn't normally expect
And of course with this guy, appearance doesn't make any difference1