They say that FIRST IMPRESSIONS MAKE A DIFFERENCE, but I have a question for you guys.
Say you met a girl, and the first time you met her she was unattractive to you or ugly. but then over time she started looking better and better. Would your opinion of her change? Would you possibly become interested in her? Or would you always feel the same way about her because she was ugly when you first met?
*And please answer as honestly as possible. I despise "fake" PC answers, please keep it real and be honest*
Like say you meet a girl once and she's ugly
then you meet her again and she's good looking.
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It means a lot. Just as much as it means to women it means to men.
If you think a guy is creepy when you first meet him, the chances are he's going to remain that way.
If a woman is ugly the first time a guy meets her, chances are she's going to remain that way.
Those are the 2 extremes though. The difference is that if she's "average" then she has a shot.
If she's below what the man feels is "average" for him, she's pretty much out of the running.
Keep in mind though, this is looking at it from the "relationship" point of view. Because most men will have sex with a tree stump, providing there's a hole in it.
There are things that a woman can do to become more presentable and to increase the mans desire to her, once the first impression of her has passed.
If you are average to him and then increase your approachability, and overall attractiveness, he will want to know more about you. And he will be likely to stay.