I haven't dated in years so I'm new to this whole "dating" thing. I was asking one of my friends if there's still a seven day or three date rule. She said people sleep with people on the first date these days. Since I've been out of the loop for over six years, I just wanted to get opinions from everyone. Do you sleep with someone on the first date? Guys, if a girl slept with you on date one, would you think she's a slut?
Any other new age dating advice would be appreciated!
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I think putting a definitive objective rule like this on an indefinitve and subjective thing is a silly thing to do.
Sleeping with a guy on the first date when you feel you have lots of sexual and physical chemistry and you're attracted to him does not make you a slut. Sleeping around for the sake of sleeping around makes you a slut.
That being said it's a rarity for me to sleep with a girl on the first date, even if I'm really into her, just because when I first start dating a girl that's not my primary concern.
That's not to say however that I haven't had one night stands/had sex on a first date.
Speaking from personal experience however, I've found that holding off on the sex and getting to know each other a bit leads to longer lasting and more meaningful relationships, and the sex is better too.1