If your with a girlfriend/dating a girl or a guy what time is it acceptable to text them first and what time is it acceptable to not text back...
i will give an example to show what I mean.
Say my boyfriend texts me first at 4pm and say I text him back straight away but he doesn't reply till like 11pm is that *acceptable*
what are everybody's thoughts about texting ?
i mean it takes 10 seconds to send a text :(
Most Helpful Girl
I have a few rules I follow but that's just me; my boyfriend doesn't understand it. I stop sending the first text after ten thirty and I stop responding to the first text after eleven thirty. To me, the first text is the first text within more than four hours.
As in all situations, there are exceptions, such as importance and who it is. A few minutes won't make that much of a difference either.
So in your example, I would've responded. But if, say, I send my boyfriend a text around ten and he doesn't respond until about two in the morning, I would not answer.
I agree with you about responding right away. I mean it doesn't take too long so don't wait hours if you can send a text right away. It's stupid.
Anyway if my rule doesn't make sense or needs clarify give me another example.0