So I was at some kind of birthday, and as you do, got slightly drunk. But not out of control drunk. And so I was talking to this girl and we ended up sleeping together and all.
After the amazing intercourse we were confiding things. She confided to me that she sort of likes me and so on. But also she told me that she isn't the romantic type cause of being scarred in the past by some idiot.
We decided to meet up on Thursday to see how things go and to keep it relaxed and so on.
She also was like "you know you'll probably forget in the morning and be like why did I sleep with her, but that's alright if you do". It obviously isn't alright but she seemed to be trying to play it cool or something. confusing!
Anyways after the moment of intimacy we slept together and then in the morning, it was indeed slightly awkward but mostly cause we were both in a horrible hangover and she went into the bathroom when the Taxi came over to collect me. So I didn't even get to say goodbye to her =(.
So I texted her a nice long text saying I didn't forget the night before and said that she is truly beautiful and also asked if she wants to still meet up on tuesday.
the answer was "haha cheers. Aye that should be grand :D"
She exchanged a couple more texts, me answering the last one which she never really responded to ("so you never told me what you work as! Yeah I'm also still quite hungover and hungry hah =D")...
First of all, should I be concerned she hasn't texted me back?
Why would you not answer a text? or would you just not answer to it cause you don't think it's really one to answer? (why do you think she didn't answer).
Yup, please do tell me if I'm overreacting on a small detail... but I think to much and I get worked up about things because of that... I wish I could be ignorant about some thing ha ha (ignorance is bliss)
Secondly, Should I wait till she gives first contact to arrange tuesday? or should I arrange it with her and phone her tomorrow?
And what do you think would suit a first day going out with someone like her? I mean... if she isn't so much the romantic type... what do you think would be fun? I'm thinking bowling, ice skating or something like that...
Just give me general advice about the situation as I am clearly genuinely interested in her but haven't a clue how to handle it ! haha
Thanks in Advance =)
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it sounds like there's some hidden insecurity from her past, which is why she's possibly playing a little hard to get. I wouldn't worry too much about it, cos she seems in to you. my advice is to wait a day or two, that way she'll be even more glad when you do arrange something cos you made her wait for it;) it always works for me when a guy stops acting interested for a while, I think it's like that with a lot of girls.
she also seems like the cool relaxed type, so somethin like bowling. or you could invite her to your place- JUST to watch a movie, and suggest you cook stuff together. it's actually really hot to see a guy cook ;)1