The title says it all. What's a girl to do to get a nice guy to like her back? I'm always told I'm so sweet & so pretty & so great..but apparently that's not enough! Apparently men like the ugly mean bitchy girls that are weird, cause that's what they always dump me for :'( help.
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Lol. Try to understand guys. You are pretty and we loooove a pretty face. But that isn't enough to keep us.
I can't speak for all guys but I like girls that are confident and have a bitchy side. I woman who is an angel to the people I care about, a devil in the bedroom ;) , who can make her own decisions, who can control her emotions and can put her foot down and put me in my place when I need it. I personally am not attracted to a female that is "too nice" and gives off the impression that she is "too easy going". I don't want someone I feel that I can control.
Figure out what you are capable of giving as a lover, what you won't put up with and what you want out of him. When you know exactly what you want out of a relationship, I promise that the impression of a confident woman is what you will project to men. There is something extremely attractive about a woman who knows what she wants and won't settle for less.
Being alone is different from being lonely, so you have to be comfortable with being alone before you can think of sharing yourself with someone else. It's like when we were in high school, all the girls that were hard to get were the ones in sports and always had things going on. All the "easy going" ones, were too busy chasing after the boys. Some guys can smell this on girls.
Good luck to you.3