I met this guy on a dating site. We had a lovely date together and since then he has called and emailed me every day. He says I am exactly what he is looking for and always asks about my children and family when I speak with him. We have arranged for him to come and stay with me this weekend (not to have sex!).
It all seems a bit too good to be true. Maybe I'm just a bit of a cynic. He is 34, a bit older than me so maybe he's just more sure of what he wants but I can't help but think he has an ulterior motive. What do you think?
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I think you need to let your guard down and just let life happen. You said you had a lovely date so it seems like he passed the 'isn't-a-creep-test' so now you are moving to the next stage which is spending more time together and getting to know each other.
As for spending the weekend with you, just make sure that you don't give into temptation as it is usually easier said than done. Do spend the time with him and see how he is with the kids and above else, don't keep trying to figure out an ulterior motive as he may be quite genuine.0