Ex-girlfriend just called out of nowhere, first time in months, to tell me that she broke up with her new boyfriend (and complained about him for 10 min straight), and then she asked if I wanted to go with her to this local club for ladies' night.
Is it wishful thinking on my part that I think she wants to get back together with me, or does that sound like a woman who is lonely after a recent break up and just wants to talk to an old friend (we broke up on good terms)?
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She needs someone to be with her at this moment. When she's good it's very likely that she will never give a sh*t about you, probably until she breaks up again with someone else. If you go with her you will have to hear about her break up again and again and again. She will be furious, sad, or even crying when she tells you about her now ex-boyfriend. She needs you to listen and agree. Listen and agree. I bet she will not care what sh*t is happening to your life. Right now her mind is filled with herself and the ex so be prepared to listen. So yes it looks like a woman who is lonely after a recent break up and just wants to talk to an old friend but mind you, if you still have feelings for her, you will feel damned used as talking and complaining seem like all she wants from you.1